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Why Chronic TMJ Pain Happens — And What You Can Do to Help Your Jaw Heal

By Aurelia Grigore·Published December 4, 2025

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Discover effective strategies to alleviate chronic TMJ pain and promote jaw healing with expert guidance and therapeutic techniques in Toronto.

A warm introduction

When your jaw hurts day after day, it can feel like such a small place is carrying such a heavy load. You might notice the tension when you wake up, when you chew, or even when you speak. And over time, that discomfort can ripple through your neck, your face, and your sense of ease.

If you’re living with chronic TMJ pain here in Toronto, I want you to know something: your jaw is not "stuck this way." It’s responding to strain, habits, stress, and the way your nervous system has been trying to protect you. With gentle care and steady support, your jaw can learn to soften again.

Let’s explore why TMJ pain happens and how you can begin creating space for healing.

What the TMJ Actually Does

Your temporomandibular joint sits just in front of your ears. It opens, closes, and glides to help you eat, speak, and express emotion. It’s a small joint, but it works constantly.

When this area becomes irritated, the surrounding muscles may tighten to guard the joint. Persistent tension in the jaw muscles can contribute to chronic TMJ discomfort and reduced mobility.

Why Chronic TMJ Pain Develops

1. Muscle tension that never gets a break

Clenching, grinding, or holding the jaw tight—even without noticing—can keep the muscles in a constant state of work. Habitual clenching can make the jaw muscles feel more tender over time.

2. Stress held physically in the face and jaw

Higher stress levels can influence how the muscles of the face and jaw hold tension, sometimes making discomfort feel stronger.

3. Postural strain from daily habits

Forward-head posture, common during computer or phone use, can change how the jaw moves and increase strain on the muscles that support it.

4. Irritated joint structures

The small disc inside the TMJ can sometimes move less smoothly or become irritated, which may contribute to clicking, popping, or stiffness.

5. Nervous-system sensitivity

Chronic or long-lasting TMJ pain can heighten the sensitivity of the nervous system, making the area respond more strongly to pressure or movement. This process, often described as sensitization, can make sensations in the jaw feel stronger than usual.

How Massage Therapy Can Support Jaw Healing

Softening overworked muscles

Gentle pressure to the neck, jaw, and face can help ease muscle activity and reduce tenderness.

Encouraging healthy movement

Slow mobilization around the TMJ can support easier movement and greater comfort.

Calming the nervous system

Slow, steady touch can help activate the body’s natural relaxation responses.

Releasing surrounding areas

Tension in the neck and upper back can influence how the jaw feels and moves.

What You Can Do Between Sessions

Rest the jaw gently

Keeping your teeth lightly apart when you’re not eating or speaking is the jaw’s natural resting position and may reduce unnecessary strain.

Bring softness to your face

Letting the tongue rest away from the roof of the mouth and softening the muscles around your eyes can help lower jaw tension.

Use warmth

A warm cloth over your cheeks and temples can support circulation and ease tight muscles.

Move with kindness

Simple, comfortable jaw movements can gently remind your nervous system that your jaw doesn’t have to stay tight.

When You’re Ready for Support

You don’t have to live with chronic jaw tension. With gentle work and steady care, the TMJ often responds beautifully. If you’d like help finding ease again, I’d be honoured to support you.

You can book a TMJ-focused session with me here in Toronto whenever you’re ready.

Key Takeaways

  • Chronic TMJ pain can be caused by muscle tension, stress, postural strain, irritated joint structures, and nervous-system sensitivity.
  • Massage therapy can help by softening overworked muscles, encouraging healthy movement, calming the nervous system, and releasing tension in surrounding areas.
  • Self-care practices such as resting the jaw gently, bringing softness to the face, using warmth, and moving with kindness can support jaw healing.
  • The TMJ is a small but constantly working joint that can become irritated, leading to discomfort and reduced mobility.
  • Professional support and gentle care can help alleviate chronic jaw tension and promote healing.

Frequently Asked Questions

What causes chronic TMJ pain?

Chronic TMJ pain can be caused by muscle tension, stress, postural strain, irritated joint structures, and nervous-system sensitivity.

How can massage therapy help with TMJ pain?

Massage therapy can help by softening overworked muscles, encouraging healthy movement, calming the nervous system, and releasing tension in surrounding areas.

What are some self-care tips for managing TMJ pain between sessions?

Self-care tips include resting the jaw gently, bringing softness to the face, using warmth, and moving with kindness.

Why does stress affect TMJ pain?

Higher stress levels can influence muscle tension in the face and jaw, making discomfort feel stronger.

What is the natural resting position for the jaw?

The natural resting position for the jaw is with the teeth lightly apart when not eating or speaking.

References & Citations

  1. [1] Jaw Muscle Soreness after Tooth-clenching Depends on Force Level- The effects of prolonged tooth-clenching on masticatory muscle pain have not been fully elucidated. We hypothesized that late-onset soreness may develop depending on the clenching force. Ten pain-free females were asked to endure sustained clenching tasks up to exhaustion in randomized sequences of 7.5%, 10%, 15%, 25%, and 40% of maximum clenching force. Perceived pain, fatigue, and pressure-pain thresholds of masseter and temporalis muscles were assessed before, immediately after, and one day after the tasks. Endurance times differed markedly among participants and force levels, ranging from 1.2 to 245.1 min. Masseter pressure-pain threshold decreased immediately after (-13.7%; p = 0.050) and one day after (-22.0%; p = 0.006) the 7.5% task. Temporalis pressure threshold decreased one day after the 7.5 % task (-14.6%; p = 0.003). It was concluded that prolonged low-level tooth-clenching in healthy young women induces a delayed soreness in the jaw elevator muscles.
  2. [2] Painful Temporomandibular Disorder: Decade of Discovery from OPPERA Studies- In 2006, the OPPERA project (Orofacial Pain: Prospective Evaluation and Risk Assessment) set out to identify risk factors for development of painful temporomandibular disorder (TMD). A decade later, this review summarizes its key findings.
  3. [3] Role of pain catastrophizing during pain processing in a cohort of patients with chronic and severe arthritic knee pain- We examined the relationship between catastrophizing and a 3-stage model of pain processing, consisting of pain sensation intensity (stage 1), pain unpleasantness (stage 2), and suffering (stage 3). We studied 310 patients with chronic and severe osteoarthritic knee pain (68.7% female) using 4 competing structural equation models. A strong relationship was found between the suffering construct and its indicators. Of the 4 theoretically plausible models, we found a model with 3 specific pathways of pain sensation leading to the final stage of pain-related suffering. A unique contribution of this study is the integration of catastrophizing into the 3 pain stages. In this model, catastrophizing mediates the relationship between pain-related unpleasantness and suffering, as well as the relationship between sensation and suffering through unpleasantness. Psychological intervention targeting catastrophizing could provide reduction of pain-related suffering that adds to the benefits of therapies directed toward the primary sensory and immediate unpleasant dimensions of pain. These results emphasize the benefit of integrating knowledge of the psychological and neural mechanisms of pain.
  4. [4] Changes in Neck Mobility and Pressure Pain Threshold Levels Following a Cervical Myofascial Induction Technique in Pain-Free Healthy Subjects- Conclusions The application of a cervical myofascial induction technique resulted in an increase in cervical flexion, extension, and left lateral-flexion, but not rotation motion in a cohort of healthy subjects. No changes in PPT in either C5-C6 zygapophyseal joint (local point) or tibialis anterior muscle (distant point) were found.
  5. [5] Oxytocin emerges from the darkness- Sensory deprivation of a single modality in very young animals is a useful model for understanding sensory system development. Visual or whisker-related tactile sensory deprivation in juvenile mice resulted in reduced excitatory drive in the corresponding sensory cortex and also in cortices relating to other sensory modalities.
  6. [6] Management of Temporomandibular Disorders and Occlusion- Okeson’s “Management of Temporomandibular Disorders and Occlusion” is a leading clinical textbook that explains the anatomy, physiology, diagnosis, and evidence-based management of temporomandibular disorders (TMD). It covers occlusion principles, pain mechanisms, TMJ pathology, and clinical treatment strategies, offering a structured approach for dental practitioners to evaluate and manage TMD and related orofacial pain.